QUOTE(barkleyaddict @ Mar 11 2004, 12:49 AM)
"how can we prove them wrong...and they know this"
In my opinion it's them that have to prove the patterson film is wrong. The patterson film defends itself and owes us nothing.
You are so correct Barkleyaddict!
The onus is on them..and the film has it's own built in defenses. ...everything that has been talked about in these forums for the past week.
It is so easy to say that someone is lying, and then sit back and watch them furiously try to defend themselves. (Whether the charge is true or not!) From that one little statement you receive a wealth of attention from others who will rush to that person's/ or thing's.. defense. Thereby stretching out the accuser's 15 minutes of fame.
It works especially well in forums such as these. People of mean spirit, or low character can make outrageous claims, be set upon by those who rise to the call, then unfairly accuse the defenders of being closed minded because they do not/ or will not..look at both sides of the equation. When in actuality, the accusers create an atmosphere of such tension within a forum, feeding the fires with innuendo, outright lies, and name calling,non production of evidense, and beligerance, that they make debate impossible.
And their supporters are the same. That is the trap we have fallen into!
There are very few people who attend these forums who I would ever deem as, narrow..small...single.....or close minded! But these are the first things which get lobbed at us by accusers who in turn do not look at both sides of the equation. They try to bring us down to their level.
There is no problem with the intent of the accuser's message...but there is with how it is delivered, and by who delivers it!
If someone worthy of respect came along and claimed to have evidence -which they would produce ..without turning it into a money-making side show of a circus- that the Patterson film was faked...I for one would love to listen to what they had to say!
But because we are not God-like in our forgivness and understanding by which we deal with these accusers, and their followers, who insult us and, our opinions, and in the same breath condemn us for not being fair....we are labeled as closed minded!
Ahh me!
It is all a sad tempest in a tea-pot, is it not?! Because, hopefully the accusers and their supporters will fade away once this book does not meet with the notariety and cash flow, which these people anticipate.