QUOTE(dogu4 @ Jan 20 2008, 12:55 PM)

It's funny, in a way. Autos kill 40,000 US citizens every year and we are nonchalant about them. Hopsitals about the same number and yet very little fear. Bees, snakes and lighting only a few hundred and they are kinda scarey. A few people get mauled and fewer yet killed by wild animals and we are terribly frightened of them. Bigfoot; virtually no known instances of anyone ever seeing 'em let alone being harmed or killed and we're terrified to the point of not going out into the woods for fear of what might happen. I hate to bring up the subject of possibly deadly Higgs-Boson particles or anit-matter for fear we'll run-away screaming like little girls.
And let's not forget the first sign of a doomsday announcing black hole is that you can't see 'em....uh oh..
Hospitals don't really kill people do they? Isn't it that people that happen to be dying go to hospitals?
When I am driving I at least have the comfort of knowing that I am in control of my own vehicle. I can at least hope to be a good defensive driver and avoid wrecks etc.
If I happen to have a chance encounter with a snake or bee, I can choose to either kill it or escape from it. In both cases the choice is still mine, I am the Alpha.
Lightning is scary enough. A 10 year old boy and his father were shooting hoops in their driveway not far from here when both were struck by lightning. The father survived. The boy did not. When struck , the boy was holding the basketball. I heard that when struck he involuntarily through the basketball several hundred yards. Lightning, though, is not an animal that can smell, hear and see you. Lightning can not feel threatened when something encroaches its home, habitat or offspring. Lightning will not chase you.
The fact is that hundreds of persons go "missing" in wilderness areas such as the PNW every year. Most of these mysteries are never solved.
The fear should be real and healthy. If they exist, and you encounter one within a certain radius, it is the BF's choice as to whether or not you will go unharmed not yours. This realization is heard in the voice of Scott H's friend in their video.