QUOTE(JayleeD @ Aug 2 2007, 08:40 AM)

I have to disagree with this. I believe that we've come far enough that we (the "White" culture) don't shame and put down rape victims.
JMO of course
Well I would say we are more pro active in getting women to come forward. But, victims are still reporting mistreatment when they make statements. It is not as bad as it once was, but it is still a problem. Also, this has been stigmatized within our own community. Women (regardless of the situation) feel its their fault.
In a lot of ways, yes we have come a long way JayleeD - but we still do have farther to go. When a woman can go to the police and not have the first question asked "What were you wearing", then I will feel better about this.
QUOTE(Blackdog)
Janice didn't say she was raped, she had some cockamamie story about some poor girl who was raped and went insane because of it. Supposedly she was locked away in a mental institution and never heard from again. Does that sound real to you? This (and Mr. C's) story is not about an actual rape, it's fiction and hype. Rape is very serious and I'm not talking about actual rape, nor do I think this is the place for it, like I said these are just a couple of stories that have no basis in anything except someones imagination. No I don't believe bigfoot rapes women.
You are half correct. Janice does claim abuse. But, was it at the hands of a bigfoot - I dont think so. I wont get into what I think both of these stories are really about, but suffice it to say I do not think Bigfoot was the culprit. But, that does not mean we should simply brush off the story right away, because it is out of our "comfort zone". Geesh, can you imagine what our society would be like if law enforcement decided to not investigate incidents because they felt the situation was just too "Unreal" or the story sounded crazy to them? We would be a society gone mad.
I am not one to settle for bits and pieces - I want the whole picture. I will always examine everything about a story - because thats what should be done. Now, if there was abuse in the story of Janice Coy - that does not make her bigfoot accounts real - seperate the issue blackdog. It is possible to have 2 or more situations happening at once, and they dont even have to be connected.
No, that doesnt sound real to me, but I choose to try and understand what these women are going through or what is going on. I will always listen when a woman says she was raped. Does the situation always match what the woman remembers - not always. Not all women seek help after such an event either. These things then build in the mind over time. By the way, men are sexually abused too - has anyone ever heard a story about a bigfoot going after a guy? I have not, so I am even less inclined to think Bigfoot is the culprit.
Finding out what may cause a woman or man to think something like a bigfoot is responsible for such a traumatic incident can help researchers understand what to look for when evaluating witnesses, and the validity of a report. I would hate to hear about a researcher who went to investigate a report of a bigfoot attacking a woman, and that researcher not understanding what to look for, and having a crime go unpunished because the researcher left laughing at this woman (who may have very well been abused). If I received a report like this I would:
1. Meet with the witness.
2. Take a full report
3. Encourage strongly that the witness receive medical attention (if that had not happened already)
A victim can simply say I dont know who attacked me, have the necessary tests performed - and wait. If the attacker was not human - the doctors will be curious from the results. But I dont think that will happen.
Decision is ours. Understand these things or not. And, if Anyone says this happened to them and they believe it so strongly it makes them crazy - I feel even more sorry for them. Its sad to see such horrible things happen to anyone, and not understand why. Rational people do not one day just decide to go completely insaine. Something happened. Regardless if it was bigfoot or human - something extremely traumatic happened to have such a break from reality.
I dont feel sorry for those who misrepresent these situations, and discuss them as this is undeniable proof that bigfoot rapes women. Mary Green should be ashamed frankly.
QUOTE(Blackdog)
Rape is very serious and I'm not talking about actual rape, nor do I think this is the place for it, like I said these are just a couple of stories that have no basis in anything except someones imagination. No I don't believe bigfoot rapes women.
Once again, your preaching to the choir. Im not sure why you think I dont take it seriously? These stories are all over within this community. Why are these reports filed? Why are women reporting this? I have no idea. But I wont turn my back on anyone who claims physical, sexual or mental abuse. I will do whatever I can to be sure they are heard, and hopefully taken care of. To do any less is irresponsible. To walk out of a home where I was just told a woman had been assaulted - and not advise her to get Medical Attention - is irresponsible. To not look into her report - for the possiblity of a crime committed - is irresponsible.
QUOTE(Blackdog)
I don't and I wasn't referring to him. I think that anyone who treats anyone any differently because of racial stereotype is discriminating one way or another.
Were you referring to me? And if so, I would ask you for a reference. I am tired of this. Nothing discriminatory has been said about anyone. The questions I asked were specifically trying to understand how these issues affect the Native American Community. If they want us to listen, then we need information to help us understand and ask the right questions. No one is yelling discrimination but you.